Pornography has always
been with us, and it’s always been controversial. It all boils down to personal
preference and personal choice. Some people aren’t interested in it, and some
are deeply offended by it. Others partake of it occasionally and others on a
regular basis.
Since people may be
reluctant to talk about it, it’s difficult to know how many people enjoy porn
on a regular basis, or how many find it impossible to resist.
It’s important to note
that “porn addiction” isn’t an official diagnosis recognized by the American
Psychiatric Association (APA). But experiencing an uncontrollable compulsion to
view porn can be as problematic for some people as other behavioral addictions.
One study done by Kinsey
institute found that 9 percent of people who view
porn have unsuccessfully tried to stop. Since then, it’s become much easier to
access porn via the internet and streaming services.This easy access makes it
more difficult to stop if watching porn has become a problem.
Studies have shown that
internet pornography shares basic mechanisms with substance addiction.Various
researchers comparing the brains of people who compulsively view porn to the
brains of people who are addicted to drugs or alcohol has produced mixed
results.
Simply viewing or
enjoying porn doesn’t make you addicted to it, nor does it require fixing.On
the other hand, addictions are about lack of control and that can cause
significant problems.
These are the viewing
habits may be a cause for concern if you:
- Find
that the amount of time you spend watching porn keeps growing
- Feel
guilty about the consequences of viewing porn
- Spend
hours on end perusing online porn sites, even if it means neglecting
responsibilities or sleep
- Insist
that your romantic or sexual partner views porn or acts out porn fantasies
even though they don’t want to
- Are
unable to enjoy sex without first viewing porn
- Are
unable to resist porn even though it’s disrupting your life
You may be able to gain control over your porn
viewing on your own, here are a few things you can try:
- Delete
electronic porn and bookmarks on all your devices.Discard all your
hard-copy porn.
- Have
a plan — choose another activity or two that you can turn to when that
powerful urge hits.
- When
you want to view porn, remind yourself how it has affected your life —
write it down its pros and cons if
that helps.
- Consider
if there are any triggers and try to avoid them.Partner up with someone
else who will ask about your porn habit and hold you accountable.
- Maintain journal to track setbacks,
reminders, and alternate activities that work.
If you can, consider
seeing a therapist to discuss your concerns. Here we can come up with an
individualized treatment plan to help you work through them.
Psychotherapy
If you believe you
have a compulsion or addiction, it’s worth seeing a mental health professional
for evaluation. This may be especially helpful if you also have obsessive-compulsive
disorder, anxiety or depression.Depending on how porn is impacting your life,
your therapist may recommend individual, group, or family counselling.
Counselling sessions
will help you understand what caused the compulsion in the first place. Your
therapist can help you develop effective coping mechanisms to change your
relationship with pornographic materials.
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