The relationship between alcohol and sex is a complicated and tricky one. It has both positive and negative effects. Various studies done on this topic have indicated that sometimes it can help us open to healthy sexual activities, but it can lead us into dangerous situations as well. So, here are some good and bad points of how it affects our sex lives.
1.
Alcohol
does lower our inhibitions. Intake of alcohol can ease our anxiety and the
issues related to body image about pleasing a partner or reaching orgasm can be
relaxed with a glass of wine/ or any alcohol for that matter. It may also make
erotic talk easier with partner. A little amount of alcohol can help man’s
instinct to initiate, reduce fear of a poor outcome and increases his sexual
confidence which will improve his erections.
2.
Stress
and anxiety are the most common causes for lower sexual activities and
frequency. Intake of alcohol can help us focus on the present, lowering
pressure and tension by temporarily slowing down the neurons in our brain.
3.
Researchers
have shown that alcohol increases the feelings of being attracted to the
partner. After drinking, they rate others as more attractive and perceive
feelings of connection towards each other.
4.
The
effect of the consumption of alcohol on our prefrontal cortex, which governs
our emotions, makes us want to be closer to someone. If a partner needs their
spouse to open up in order to feel emotionally and sexually safe, one or two
glasses of wine may increase their relatedness. It can make us to become more
open about our feelings.
But in larger amounts, alcohol has completely
opposite effects on sexual performance.
1.
Any
drink either wine or alcohol might cause addiction to an individual which in
turn leads to the risk of alcoholism. Alcohol carries various inherent risks as
a substance. There is a possible link between alcohol consumption with sexual
problems and other diseases like cancer, etc.
2.
Alcohol
may cause impaired judgement and make altered decisions about having sex with
someone inappropriate or make us vulnerable to having unprotected sex which can
lead to some kind of physical disease.
3.
Too
much intake of alcohol can also lead to poor sexual performance and causes
erectile dysfunction. In women, it can dehydrate the vagina, causing painful
penetration and makes sexual activity uncomfortable.
4.
Alcohol
sometimes separate us from reality and our partner. Being toxic and inebriated
is sometimes a passive way to not be present with our partner or be able to
understand their emotions and sexual needs for that moment.
Drinking alcohol in excess can
make having a good sex difficult and this is because it reduces both men’s and
women’s sexual sensitivity. By regular and prolonged drinking, sexual response
is reduced in both sexes. In men, alcohol can cause difficulties getting and
maintaining an erection while women may experience reduced lubrication and find
it harder to have an orgasm, or have orgasms that are less intense.
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